| | | | | > > > I no longer celebrate pagan rituals like the Festival of > > > Santa Claus. Dead or plastic trees with glitter on them > > > represent the extreme of the pagan idolatry. > > > > > > - and what about the presents? > > Well, it is difficult not to accept anything.. > I personally told my family that I have everything I need > and I appreciate their kindness, but I don't want any > presents at Christmas. > > Of course, I received much help and support (financial) > from them before. That was MY PRESENT for that I was VERY > thankful. > > In my opinion presents are ok, a symbol of good feelings > towards you, but NOT at a special time, as a habit or as > a tradition, business whatever. I try to make present > whenever I FEEL that I want to give a present to one of > my friends, relatives or to my parents. > > Only giving stuff, because "you have to" is not ok, for > me. > > In my opinion the festival of celebrating Christ and his > birth has become BIG business. It is not anymore > associated (in common) with thoughts about his original > message (Christ) but with overeating, present-'trade' and > drinking. > > Isn't it a fact, that people act nicer in these period of > the year than any other? "Because it's Christmas.." Why > don't we act like it was Christmas all year?
but, you know, most suicides happen in december. Because people tend to feel more alone and helpless and, well, sad. After all, you tend to celebrate christmas with your family and friends. so i guess it wouldn't be the best if we acted like it was christmas all year.
and about: Only giving stuff, because "you have to" ...it takes two to tango and let's be honest...presents are always nice, whether you like the person or don't like them. or maybe I'm just spoiled. whatever
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